Frequently Asked Questions

Do you have rules and regulations to follow?

As an Interfaith Minister, I am under no denominational regulations. My only rules are that you treat this ceremony, and each other, respectfully.

Is pre-wedding counseling required?

Can we write our own vows?

Yes, please do! I’m here to help you create a unique and expressive ceremony, with words and gestures that are deeply meaningful to you.

Can I add elements from other faiths, not my own?

Yes, you may include any material that inspires you and sings to your heart. 

I don’t want any religion in my ceremony, is that OK?

Yes, I welcome all. We have many ways of creating an inspiring secular ceremony.

Will you give a sermon?

I’d like to include something non-traditional, but I’m concerned about offending family.

I have a wonderful approach for this situation that works beautifully. Just ask....

I’m nervous about saying my vows in public !

We can make the ceremony brief and keep your speaking parts as short as “I do,” if you wish. I usually prompt couples to "repeat after me," so you don’t have to memorize. We have lots of options!

 Can we include our animals in the ceremony?

Yes, they are family too.

Usually I stay for one photo with the couple, and maybe one cocktail, and then I leave.

What will you wear?

Your choice, see the photos in the "about me" tab. Unless you request otherwise, I will wear black. I usually wear a simple black dress or a black robe. The white stole is optional.